I lost a friend yesterday. Dave was diagnosed with leukemia in mid May. They started his chemo right away, and he was finished with his first round of treatments by the end of the month. He celebrated his 60th birthday in the hospital; and despite the weight of his situation, and the drain on his body from the treatments, he was upbeat and ready to get on with his life. Always positive. On Sunday he suffered a massive brain hemorrhage, and passed away the next day at 4:50pm, June 4, 2012. Another light has left this world. Dang it. It just seems unreal to write those words.
I first met Dave Farabee in June of 2008... not so long ago, I suppose, but it seems like Dave and I have been friends all our lives. He was that kind of a guy. I was playing in a band called Electra 225 at the time, and our lead guitarist, Steve Thomas, asked if I would be interested in playing a couple of sub gigs for his other band, Cahoots. I was more than happy to jump at the challenge. A few week before, I had gone out to hear them play at a local bar, and even sat in with the band, so I knew their set list, and knew that they were a solid band, with good players... and easy to get along with. Dave played bass in that band, as well as local favorites, the M-Dock band. So for two nights on the weekend of June 20th, I played with Cahoots, and started getting to know Dave Farabee on and off stage. My first and lasting impression of him is that he is a friendly guy, with an intelligent, easy-going manner about him... always ready with a smile and a corny joke, or when the occasion called for it, sincere words of encouragement. I don't think I have ever met anyone who didn't like him. In the past four years I have had the privilege of playing music with Dave on many occasions. Among the most memorable have been the annual Mardi Gras and Halloween gigs at his church, Saint James Episcopal, here in Springfield. The band included Dwight Gann on guitar, Dave on bass, Greg Hale on keys, me on drums, and Clay Stuckey on guitar. Those gigs, with that group of guys, were always very enjoyable. Those are times that will never come around again. David Farabee was one of the good guys, and I will miss him. So long Dave. Rest in peace, brother.